When I can accept your quietness
And not assume it’s because of me

When I can accept your anger
And not react as if you are angry with me

When I can allow you to be indifferent
And not take it as an insult

When I can be with you in company
And not see your behaviour as a reflection on me

When I can accept your swings of mood
Without needing to understand or control

When I can allow you to be you
I will be beyond ownership

Then, my dear friend, not only will you feel
My Real Love

But I will have found True Freedom within me.
Osho